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Riding the Waves: Self-Care in Times of Struggle

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The Other Side of Struggle

It’s hard to say “new year, new me” with the start of this season. We are only four months in and already have experienced some pretty hard hits. When things just keep adding up, where does it all go from here?

Adjusting to this new “norm” has everyone on edge and out of place. Is it really so crazy to spend this much time at home with our loved ones or roommates? Given so much time to allow more self reflection and more physical rest and recuperation from all the daily stress of work, commuting, office stress, home life, and all that is in between? I find this to be a scary and uncertain time for all of us. However, we are all in this together. It could be seen as one of the biggest global struggles we all face together.

During the entire pandemic period, it rained here in Los Angeles county just about every day since it began. I even heard a report on the news the first week into the quarantine, Los Angeles’ air quality was the best it had ever been! Just with one week of full rain and most people off the road! Isn’t that insane. A time when the Earth is able to cleanse, replenish, and renew itself. One step made a huge impact already.

I took my perspective deeper with this and thought, why can’t we all do the same? It can be extremely difficult with the current situation dealing with a house full of people, even with children and having to be the parent and teacher. Having a newly makeshift office at home or even worried to find an income to begin with. Even those who have a loved one in need of care and support due to being ill. Of course, there is the worries of income, housing, bills, and etc., but what about physical, mental and emotional health...overall well-being. Don’t forget those aspects need just as much attention as the others.

This time could be seen as the time to give yourself the tender love and care your body, mind, and soul could use. There are healthcare workers, who are helping to provide their services for free or at a lower cost. If you like to connect with a healthcare professional and not sure where to start, feel free to contact us, we are always here to help you. Tending to the inner work by healing through self care and self love.

In the end, don’t forget about yourself.

Sending love & light ❤️✨

 
 
 Jessica Escobedo, L.Ac.

Riding the Waves: Self-Care in Times of Struggle

Life isn't always smooth sailing. We all face periods of struggle, whether it's a personal loss, a career setback, or the overwhelming weight of global events. During these turbulent times, self-care isn't a luxury; it's a lifeline. It's the anchor that keeps us grounded when the waves threaten to pull us under.

Why Self-Care Matters More Than Ever:

When we're struggling, our energy reserves are depleted. We're more susceptible to stress, anxiety, and even physical illness. Neglecting self-care can exacerbate these issues, creating a vicious cycle of distress. Prioritizing self-care isn't selfish; it's essential for survival and resilience.

Navigating the Storm: Practical Self-Care Strategies:

Here are some actionable self-care strategies to help you navigate challenging times:

  • Acknowledge Your Feelings:
    • It's okay to feel overwhelmed, sad, angry, or scared. Don't suppress your emotions. Allow yourself to feel them, and acknowledge their validity.
    • Journaling, talking to a trusted friend, or seeking professional help can provide an outlet for emotional release.
  • Prioritize Basic Needs:
    • When stressed, we often neglect basic needs like sleep, nutrition, and hydration.
    • Make a conscious effort to eat healthy meals, drink plenty of water, and get enough sleep. Even small improvements can make a big difference.
  • Practice Mindful Movement:
    • Exercise can be a powerful stress reliever. Even gentle movement like walking, yoga, or stretching can help to release tension and improve mood.
    • Mindfulness during movement, such as focusing on your breath and body sensations, can enhance its calming effects.
  • Set Realistic Expectations:
    • During difficult times, it's crucial to lower your expectations and be kind to yourself.
    • Don't try to be perfect or accomplish everything at once. Focus on small, manageable tasks, and celebrate your progress.
  • Create Boundaries:
    • Protect your energy by setting boundaries with people and activities that drain you.
    • Learn to say no to commitments that you don't have the capacity for.
    • Limit your intake of news, and social media, if it is causing you more distress.
  • Seek Connection and Support:
    • Don't isolate yourself. Reach out to loved ones, join a support group, or seek professional help.
    • Connecting with others who understand your struggles can provide comfort and validation.
  • Engage in Activities You Enjoy:
    • Make time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation, even if it's just for a few minutes each day.
    • Whether it's reading, listening to music, spending time in nature, or pursuing a hobby, these activities can help to lift your spirits.
  • Practice Gratitude:
    • Even in the midst of struggle, there are always things to be grateful for.
    • Take a few moments each day to reflect on the positive aspects of your life.
    • Keep a gratitude journal.
  • Be Patient and Compassionate:
    • Healing takes time. Be patient with yourself, and practice self-compassion.
    • Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a  friend who is struggling.  

Remember:

Self-care is a continuous process, not a one-time fix. It's about building healthy habits and creating a supportive environment for yourself. By prioritizing self-care during challenging times, you can strengthen your resilience and navigate the waves with greater ease.

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